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Cappadocia, Culture, Göreme, Travel, Turkey, Vacation, Wanderlust
Have you ever found yourself in a therapy session that you did not ask for nor are getting paid to offer? Well, I have a story on that I’ll tell you about later. We set out to explore the city of Göreme. Making our way downtown, we came across this surprisingly beautiful café with the most colourful sitting area I have ever seen. All the tables were white as well as the flowers, while the flower pots were all these different shades of pink with chairs that brought life to the place. Typical of us, we just had to stop and snap a few pictures here and there.
Of course, our plan was to wander around as we tried to locate the historic parts of this city along with any beautiful spots. We had no map or sense of direction-and that was the fun of it. Few meters up the café we spotted a high cliff from which we were sure we would have a perfect view of the whole of Goreme. We hiked up this slippery way to the cave houses that Judy refused to enter because they looked occupied. It was clear someone lived there or made frequent visits owing to the presence of household merchandise that could be seen from the window (yes I peeped). We followed different trails that wound through the valleys and hilly cave routes and there were all these pebbles and tiny rocks that made it so hard to go further up so we took a different turn and found ourselves at this expansive vine field that looked like someone’s farm. There were two options here – either go back and risk slipping down the rocky caves or run across the field and figure out whether a route exists on the other side. Across the field, an ATV bike leaving a cloud of dust behind made it easy for us to decide and that’s how we found ourselves in a picture-perfect landscape.
Rose Valley is adjacent to Red Valley and they both offer this stunning scenery of different rock formations as well as a view of the city. You could see the fairy chimneys, pigeon houses and mushroom-like rock formation paired with the cascades of colour on the rocks accentuated by the sunny day that made it look like a scene from a movie, only this one was far much better. It may seem like one is in the middle of nowhere while walking through but once you reach the top of any of the caves or hills, one is awarded with a view of the city below which offers some sense of comfort as one looks at the civilization and life going on below.
Up and down we walked enjoying our chit chat and laughter, constantly telling each other how unbelievably beautiful our views were. In every valley or stopover, one thing was consistent-The famous wish tree (or evil eye tree). Okay maybe not famous since we didn’t know about until our visit to Cappadocia. But this evil eye tree is very symbolic among the people of Cappadocia. Although there were several wish trees, there was one that had a tree of pots right next to it and a ranch of horses further below.
I can’t tell you how many pictures we took with different strangers at this particular tree and along the way. It doesn’t help that most of them couldn’t speak English but they all wanted to have memories with this pair of melanin craziness. You should see the with crazy poses we had and how we had to improvise. We were having fun, it oozed out of us. The joy was undeniable and I’d like to think that our energy is what attracted all those strangers to our space. (I suspect Judy has a crazy blog post on this coming up soon-be on the lookout
It helped that it was the beginning of winter so it wasn’t uncomfortably hot or unbearably cold and no one to dictate our pace made us enjoy exploring Goreme even more. It also helped that Judy is an adventurous soul who was willing to go with the flow and let the day take its course. She’s the kind of person who likes having an itinerary or knowing what to expect while I’m the opposite of that, I don’t make plans and discover my way at the destination yet we somehow made it work. We definitely explored Goreme inside out and by the end of the day, we can say we were officially locals-I mean we could name streets already lol!
Now here is the interesting therapy session experience we had on this day that Judy still bursts out with laughter when she hears of a carriage or horses! As we were trying to figure out where to start with our exploration escapades that morning, we located a beautiful carriage by the road. We felt it was a beautiful insta-worthy view so we decided to do some justice. As we were enjoying our little photoshoot, Adam, who was the owner of the horses walked to us. With a great smile, he offered to take pictures of us. As we were leaving, Adam requested that we could linkup with him after we were done with our activities that evening…
The free therapy session happened so fast. Neither Judy nor I saw it coming – We’re at a restaurant enjoying dinner. Across the table is Adam the horseman. We are having a great conversation about life and travel in general and everyone seems to be enjoying the moment. All over a sudden, Adam starts pouring out his heart, or so we thought. The conversation is taking an unexpected turn. Perhaps I should back up a little. Earlier when we met the horseman as we were taking pictures, he struck up a conversation with us being all nice and polite. So how did we get to this emotional heart pour? Wait did we wrong him?
Mr. Horseman is now consumed about my engagement and how the mister and I are making it work – I had told him earlier that I was engaged. My fiancé is supposedly Turkish, who visits me in Kenya every two or three months and we’re in the process of dowry payments before we start planning the wedding.
He tells us that he’s looking to settle down and would like a Kenyan lady and we tell him we have a younger sister who might be fit for him. Judy and I are twins. 😊 He’s already made it clear that he doesn’t like Judy (Judy is a handful and trouble), which is fine by us. I engage him anyway and turns out he is divorced (oh wow what do we even say to him? Do we ask him about his divorce and family? Do we tell him sorry that happened to him and change the topic?) Judy and I are curious, we want to get an idea of why this man who was all cheerful is sad and emotional. But again, It’s almost 8pm. We’re tired from walking around all day and this is the last thing we need. We have some wine we’re looking forward to indulging in in our hotel room. He gets all emotional almost shedding tears and says he doesn’t want to talk about it. I let it slide but he brings it up again. He’s talking about how girls from university like partying and what not but somewhere along the way the conversation takes a swift turn to how he doesn’t like being used and his kids were snatched from him. He calls one of the waiters and they have a hushed conversation in Turkish. He turns back to us with his voice getting shaky like someone who’s about to start sobbing. It’s already getting awkward and we’re ready to bounce. We ask for our bill, pay and leave for our hotel.
Love,
Joy